

It started on a Tuesday morning.
My calendar was full of back-to-back calls, and before I could even sip my coffee, three Slack pings came in—each one some version of “Hey, quick question…”
By lunch, I’d solved everyone’s problems but hadn’t touched my own work.
That night, I sat on the couch, staring blankly at the TV, realizing I’d spent another day managing other people’s emotions instead of my actual job.
It wasn’t burnout from doing too much.
It was burnout from carrying too much.
That’s when I started tracking where my energy actually went. And what I found shocked me:
Most of my exhaustion came from things that weren’t even mine to carry.


We’ve been told burnout comes from long hours, tight deadlines, and high expectations.
But for women leading in tech, there’s a hidden layer no one talks about:
The unpaid emotional labor—the constant support, smoothing conflicts, checking in, mentoring, absorbing stress.
You’ve probably tried the usual fixes:
Time-blocking and productivity apps
“Wellness” checklists that feel like another to-do
Forcing vacations that only postpone the overwhelm
The catch-22?
You can’t set better boundaries if you don’t see where they’re being crossed.
Once I realized burnout wasn’t a character flaw or lack of resilience, but a system quietly siphoning my focus…
Everything changed.
It wasn’t that I couldn’t handle stress.
It was that I’d been handling everyone else’s too.
Eventually, I discovered exactly where my time, mental load, and emotional bandwidth were bleeding out.
That clarity alone made boundary-setting almost effortless—because I finally knew what to say no to.
And now I’m about to show you exactly how I did it…


A quick-start guide and diagnostic assessment designed for women tech leaders who want to:
Identify what’s quietly draining their energy in under 20 minutes
Protect their focus without feeling guilty or confrontational
Start building real burnout armor that lasts
Backed by experience with observing how unseen emotional labor compounds in tech leadership roles, this is your first step toward reclaiming your bandwidth.
Designed for exhausted new moms by a mom who’s been there.
Proven, pediatrician-reviewed methods
No apps. No rigid training. No guilt.
Most people don’t realize how much of their focus gets lost to hidden emotional work like constantly checking in, managing others’ stress, and smoothing every little fire.
This assessment helps you spot those “energy thieves” in your day that keep you tired even when your to-do list looks normal.
Find the biggest leaks in your mental and emotional bandwidth
See your burnout patterns clearly
Get a custom snapshot of where your boundaries are being crossed



Once you know what’s draining you, this workbook helps you take simple, real-world steps to protect your focus again.
Learn how to respond to draining situations with calm and clarity
Build healthy “micro-boundaries” that keep your day lighter
Feel more focused and present at work without guilt or overthinking
You’ll start to notice the shift fast: fewer unnecessary tasks, fewer emotional detours, more breathing room.

If you’ve ever felt like the “go-to” person for everyone’s stress, this bonus tool will be a wake-up call (in the best way).
It helps you understand whether you’ve become the “team therapist” and shows you how to step out of that role gracefully.
Identify when you’re carrying feelings that aren’t yours
Learn how to support others without absorbing their stress
Start showing up as a leader with clarity, not constant caretaking

Everything is designed to take ~20 minutes and give you clarity you’ve likely never had before.
When you finally see what’s stealing your energy, protecting it becomes second nature.

You wake up already tired, dreading messages that start with “quick question…”
You replay conversations, wondering if you said the “right thing.”
You end the week exhausted but unsure why.

You start your day knowing where your focus belongs—and what’s not yours to fix.
You set clear boundaries confidently, without guilt or over-explaining.
You end the week calm, clear, and in control of your mental energy.

The Invisible Load Mini-Guide (Part 1 of Burnout Armor)
The Invisible Load Assessment™
BONUS: Team Therapist Assessment (free)
About 20 minutes. It’s designed for quick clarity you can act on immediately.
No. If you regularly carry emotional responsibility for others at work, this will help.
No. It’s a self-guided clarity tool to identify energy drains and improve boundaries
You’ll receive instant access to the mini guide and assessment files via email.
That’s exactly who this was made for—it’s bite-sized, practical, and gentle enough to do even on your most depleted day.
Each purchase is for individual use, but you can recommend it so your team can take their own assessments.
Yes—one payment of $7 for full lifetime access.
No. Everything is explained step-by-step in plain language.
You don’t need to quit your job…
Set your Slack status to “Do Not Disturb” forever…
Or keep pretending that burnout is just part of leadership.
Click below to grab your copy of The Invisible Load and uncover the hidden drains quietly burning you out…
So you can start protecting your energy, focus, and boundaries with confidence.
You deserve to lead without losing yourself.
You don’t need acres of land…
You don’t need years of gardening experience…
And you definitely don’t need to waste another season “waiting until next year.”
Click below to grab your Tiny Yard Garden Planner now and take the first step toward the thriving mini-garden you’ve been dreaming of.
Your space is ready to bloom. All it needs is your plan.

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